You can't have a healthy relationship with two unhealthy people.When you're trying to use someone to complete you, you're creating an incomplete relationship.Have you ever dated a great guy who seems like he’s got “it all together,” only to find out weeks or months later that he’s really more of a boy than a man?

Mature couples don't just accept one another's pasts but want to help heal the wounds.

They look beyond the mistakes and the flaws toward the beauty in the future together.

We all have a past, and in many cases, one we're not proud of.

We can't help what happened to people before we knew them. Immature couples, however, refuse to see beyond the past.

It's about pushing each other to pursue their passions, interests and become the best person possible. It's easy to spend days in bed and weekends in the hazy world of blankets and kisses.

But eventually, that smothering love is replaced with motivated love — a type of love that comes when you want to make a life with someone and work hard to get that life. They never feel that motivation to leave each other only to come back more successful and more determined to make a life for the two of them. Mature couples do not spend their days bickering over a screen.

Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. Love isn't like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Because love is either a passing game, or it's forever. There are no passionate fights with passionate make-up sex. They dominate each other, force themselves together and make one flawed mesh of a human. They are two individual people looking to make two better people.

It's the calmest place in your life, the safest blanket you've ever worn. It eats away at you when you go to sleep or leave each other for just a few hours. There is never a feeling that something has been taken away or is leaving with the other person.

There's a void in immature relationships, an apparent absence and incessant worry that something's missing.

They are comfortable and secure and free of doubt because mature love isn't about all those small questions, but a comfort in knowing the big one is answered.

There's no right or wrong time to move in together.