He can use this knowledge to be a better man for you and he can use it for his own selfish reasons. When your bullshit-ometer goes off, listen to it and call him on it.Some men like to date younger women because they can be easier to manipulate, but most men will respect a woman who is confident enough to stand up for herself and not put up with his BS.

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He may have had a wealthy ex-wife or he may be paying a huge chunk of his salary to his ex-wife and kids.

Either way, this doesn’t provide any security for you. If he has the ability and desire to travel the world with a hot, young woman on his arm, that’s great for both of you as long as it doesn’t prevent you from accomplishing your own goals.

For the love of all that’s holy, do not call them ma’am, do not flirt with their husbands and don’t dress too sexy, especially in the beginning. If you haven’t finished college or are on a successful career track, you can’t afford to jet across the globe only to face the end of the relationship and find yourself in the same financial state you were in when you graduated high school. It’s perfectly fine to allow him to take care of you to a point, but when he starts sounding like your father; it’s time to get out… Your friends will have fun joking around about “the old guy” or dating “Mr.

You can either look at it as a fun experience and enjoy yourself, or let him know what you are sacrificing and hope he willing to work around your schedule. Smith”, but do your best to nip this behavior in the bud.

But, if he has a psycho ex, do you want to bring that into your life?

If you are drawn to older men for the security they bring, don’t judge him by his expensive suits, watch and nice car.Know what you are getting yourself into before you get in too deep. Not only will she be less likely to make your lives less of a living hell, but she’s the best resource for learning who this man is. Plus, if he was ever abusive or unkind to her, you need to know.Of course some women are bitter and may not be the best judge of your new man’s character.Don’t assume that older men are different than younger men when comes to using women as sex objects.Protect your heart and self-worth by not jumping into sex or accepting expensive gifts too quickly.Some men live a George Clooney type of life, and plan to die a bachelor. You wouldn’t want some other (younger) woman trying to take your place in your children’s lives. He may be ready to settle down and start a family, while you are just getting started as an adult and have no interest in settling down.